Xubi's Diaries

SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS TO PONDER :- 1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you over-react too harshly to their inappropriate behaviour. 2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you've lost them. 3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them. 4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public. 5. If your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things, you don't let them chose what they want. 6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly. 7. If your child does not respect other people's feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order and command them. 8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to misbehaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour. 9. If

Merry Christmas peeps.Myab the joy of Christmas be with us forever and ever.

First and foremost,this shoutour goes to God Almighty,the creator of heaven and earth,the arabaribit and aribirabata arugbo ojo,the lion of the tribe of judah,the I am that I am,the one that is and is to come,the one at whose feet every one bows at,the great provider,the merciful God,and finally to the everlasting God.At this juncture,I just want to say thank you Lord!!! Then my family,my dad,my mum,and my sisters. To John Melete,the best friend you can ever ask for,To Kike,Tosin, you re the best. To Demola for always listening,I dunno why I haven't bored him yet with all my chattering,but still he always listens. To all others whose name I can't mention here,I salute you.To those who in their ways tried to make me into a better person,ese pupo. To the readers of this blog,even though you sneak here,read the posts and run away without commenting.I say a very very very biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig thank you(can you see how big the thank you is?)Lol.I appreciate you fro

I loved this and I must share with you. Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life. Never ask for a lighter rain, just pray to God for a better umbrella. - That is the attitude! Life is not about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. It's not how we care in the beginning, but how much we care till the very end. Some people always throw stones in your path. It depends on what you make with them; a Wall or a Bridge? - Remember you are the architect of your life. Search for a good heart, but don't search for a beautiful face, coz beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful. It's not important to hold all the good cards in life, but it's important how well you play with the cards you hold. Often when we lose all hope & think this is the end, remember God and pray, it's just a bend, not the end.' - Have faith and have a successful life. One of the basic differences between God and humans is, God gi

From Mr. Etcetera... I think I am the most criticised President in the whole world, but I want to tell this audience that before I leave, I will be the most praised President," said President Goodluck Jonathan at the opening of the 52nd Annual General Meeting of the Nigerian Bar Association at the International Conference Centre in Abuja. Hey guys, I guess you know that pointing fingers is not my style, hahaha, just as I know that it will be difficult to find a single Nigerian who hasn't pointed fingers at President Goodluck Jonathan since he became President. But really, can so many fingers be pointed at a single individual all at the same time? Some people have gone to the extent of saying that since Jonathan took office, everything has gone to hell in a handbasket. Others have held him responsible for everything that has gone wrong in the country, from the tear in their pants to the economy. Trust me: Nigerians are beginning to agree that when it comes to assigning blame, l

Yhh,I know you do it.

It has been ages since I was here last,don't even know why but I'll like to attribute it to the fact that I am still trying to settle down for service year. How are you guys?Hope everything z aiit?Just passing by and saying hi. Tk care

I was going through my bible this morning and I was looking for where to read,I kinda read scatterly(pardon my English)and I decided I wanted Psalms(I smiled to myself and thought,this is the spirit leading)so I finally decided on Pasalm1. Naturally I knew Psalm 1 was about the man who doesn't keep to the ungodly and obeys God's commandments and how he is like a tree planted by a river and we all know that.such a tree will grow well and have good fruits. So to me I thought the morale of the story was just be like that righteous man in the passage,obey God's commandment and avoid the counsel of the unglodly and well,you re good to go. But to my dismay this morning,when I read the passage I realised that it was waaaay more than that. The first verse for example: BLESSED (HAPPY, fortunate, prosperous, and enviable) is the man who walks and lives not in the counsel of the ungodly [following their advice, their plans and purposes], nor stands [submissive and inactive] in the pa

One thing about camp is you get to meet loadz of peepz,the nice ones,the horrible ones,the kind ones,the sophisticated ones,the crappy ones and any other ones.... So I met this guy Victor and I actually thought the girl he hangs out with was his camp gf.Yh,if u meet a guy in camp,they tend to ask you outrightly if you had a camp girlfriend or camp boyfriend. So Victor was the director of the drama for our platoon and I was the social organizer or director,lol(YaH) so to some extent we had some interactions. I actually thought Victor and Tobi were camp boyfriend and girlfriend but to my embarrassment and shock they aren't,and to think they actually look good together. We got talking and I was checking his phone and realised that he had a girlfriend and he is so in love with his girlfriend and its kind of cute.They have been dating for more than 5yrs and its really cute. Kinda feel guilty that I thought so lowly of him,so Victor here is to you*cheers*and wishing you happy year

So right now we are at the pavilion waiting for lectures.To me,those lectures are an avenue for sleeping,yhh,sleeping at past 10 and waking up by 3am is no life,I have to feed my body with sleep.To my surprise,I found out that the 3 girls behing me are what I term as'sleepers'.Hehe I am kinda used to the drill now,but sleep is a very powerdul hypnotic.How can one be feeling sleepy when choruses are being rendered?I need deliverance. To say the truth,these lectures are actually okk,like they tell us to do this and that and tell us how to avoid potholes in life.An annoying thing is also is the singing of the NYSC anthem,I made up my mind not to learn the blasted song,imagine my horror when I discovered I knew it.Mtchew. Things are ridiculously expensive here,of course we are being exploited,but of course,will have to stop now,don't want soldiers to seize ma phone. How are you guys?Hope you re good. Laters *blows kiss*

Dear Nigerian wife, heartfelt congratulations to you on your recent nuptials. Love is indeed a beautiful thing and I am so pleased that you have met and married the man of your dreams. Surely after all the celebration, you just want to go home and live happily ever after with your other half. To help you navigate towards your future happiness, here are a few words of wisdom from me to you completely free of charge: The first thing you must know about being a good wife is that your in-laws have all the power in your marriage. Regardless of all you thought or imagined in the past, you start to live by their grace as soon as you say "I do". Yes. They can visit your home anytime they like with suitcases in tow and stay for as long as they like too. Simply delete any idea you have to complain – after all, you should be grateful they let their son or brother marry you. Instead, as a good wife, you should concern yourself with more important things like getting pregnant immediately.

I have read lots of things about abuses in relationships. I don't mean abuses like oloshi,oloriburuku and co I mean firstly emotional and physical abuse. But today I am talking mainly on the emotional abuse. You see those guys that typically makes it their life's duty to abuse girls are all of the same kind.They are mostly bullies and these kinds of bullies are not the ones we stand up to and they leave us alone,rather these are the bullies we leave. The abuse comes in this order. 1. Degrading. The bullies here just degrade the lady with words and actions. Just imagine a scenario where you have spent the better part of your evening cooking dinner for your guy and he comes in and says: is this how to set the table?Don't you have matching plates and cutlery?That pain u feel at that moment is abuse. Emotional abuse. And of course later you just make it your duty to get matching plates and cutlery so you can please your guy. That moment you notice that you keep going o

Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things that will not endure a life- time. These have led many of them into wrong marriages and life time bondage. We need to identify and deal with them: 1) HEIGHT: Every girl's dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a baritone voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guy can give you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth of the guy in God and in character. 2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also lucky, they are seen to be good suitors, and girls do say "they look manly" "they look like real men". Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man, character and ability to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without character will use his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face. 3) A WELL SET HOUSE: A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day. Many girls will throw caution into th

...........Once someone hurt you, it's harder to relax around them, harder to think of them as safe to love. But it doesn't stop you from wanting them

Hello everyone and hw are you?I have been AWOL for a while now m sorry that's because I had to go to ago Fr my clearance .I an NT fully done tho let's just say I still have 2 other places ti get cleared. So to the topic or today, by one sided friends I men friends that are only my friends not other peoples friends. A friend that we do everything together,hang out together, share secrets together go out together do things together and so on. I really don't like a scenario whereby my friend and I are on our way somewhere and she sees another friend and then leave me to go hit ad kiss and do whatever of do,I mean wat do you expect me to do at that very precise nd very awkward moment?eh?!smile at the both of you excuse you to give your moment?you just put me in very awkward position I don't do awkward. Not ti worry tho I won't do tat to you, I have this standing policy of:do unto others what you want then to do o you. So guys,is there anyone out there in this situa

The Nigeria I want. A country Full of good people Full of love Always willing to give a lending hand A country With its people Who are happy And want others to be happy as well A country With great social amenities With no need to queue for water or food A country With great health system So its people won't die Cos of an ordinary infection A country With good roads So as to minimize deaths by accidents A country With good educational system And great job opportunities That allows for its graduates to get jobs A country Where people love each other Where the Yorubas,Ibos and Hausas Live as one A country Where there is love Which continuously flows As the blood in our body. Happy Independence Nigerians. Written By Me! Pls drop your comments.Thank u.

Okk this isn't funny oo,but then,God is their straight

I am not claiming to know much oo,that's why I am asking,what's the main difference between a police station and a police post?What's the function of the two?What are the pros and cons of the two?And whatever a police post is,why does it have to be that raggedly looking??!!!!

Someone used that post as a dp,and suffice to say,as I was reading it and smiling to myself and having that sweet feeling with the glazed look and my eyes and the fluttering of butterflies in my stomach,I got to the 'goat'part. PS:all that took me less than ten seconds to read,and yes I am perfectly capable of catching all that feelings in ten seconds. Back to the story Well no 1,I am not a goat and I do believe it.I am a great fan of love,the happily every after stories,the things has to be tough before it gets better phase of love No,I don't believe love has to be that smooth and easy,hell no,it has to has its own up and downs,strenght and weaknesses,its moment of joy and moments of utter sadness etc,that's what makes love so strong that it will be able to forge ahead and go against all unforeseen againstables in the nearest future. And then somebody typing that and putting goat,,its just makes the whole concept of love a joke. And no,I do not mean the type of l

#LoveDisFact... The patience you exercise when your Blackberry hangs, please use it in relationships. The Toilet, best place to eat stolen meat. Time Heals everything, well except Yoruba tribal Marks. Why count your money in front of the ATM? Will you return if it's incomplete or is there a button that says "incomplete''? It amazes me that people are afraid to talk in the exam room when the question clearly said "Discuss'' I'm in Lagos, my internet is terrible but Shekau is in Sambissa forest and yet he has enough bandwidth to upload 59mins YouTube video. The rate at which the super eagles plays draw games is making me wonder if Okro is one of Naija Mineral resources. Some girls are looking for tall guys with pink lips and six packs when their father is short, pot bellied with pommo lips. It is only in Nigeria that a Policeman will stop you and search your phone gallery for blue film If People Can Use "LOL" Wit

I am a yoruba geh and I'll be talking about our long forgotten or last yoruba traditions.I am not claiming to know all but I am leaning towards marraige mainly. In the olden days abi former days abi days of our fore fathers,when two people wanted to get marries,an investigation would be made into the two families by each family to know the pros and cons of the family like what are the most common ailments affecting that family,is there any psychriatic disorders in the family,are there dieseases like leprosy or parkison disease and so on.What happens during childbirth,are the husbands drunkards?do they beat their wives and pummel them with their fists,are the men from that particular family capable of making children and so on. But what I don't know mainly is if after the info has been known,whether they go ahead with the wedding or not,or if as par Yoruba ppl they get charms to block a certain ailment or charms that will amplify one weakness. Or I dunno sha Now let's come t

Now dats some serious shit!!!! Nd m guessing if you go to America too,they jump on the tail or tyre of the plane.Lmao

#sowie,but I've got so much love for damon salvatore,not ian somehalder#U get what I mean? Let's get real,I absolutely LOVE that guy!!!*muah* Av a nice rest

Are you afraid to die?Like when you are old,happy with your spouses with you and children sitting around you and your grandkids playing together in the sun? I was singing this song and an elderly woman(family house things) nearly had my head for it. Okan mi yin oba orun Momore wa sodo re Wota wosan t'adarijia ba yin bi re Yin Oluwa Yin Oluwa Oba ainipekun *English translation* My hear praises the King of Heaven My praise to thee I bring Ransom ed, and Forgiven Who shall I praise but thee Praise him praise him The everlasting God She then called me and asked who I was singing burial songs for? Lol. It wasn't funny ooo Me was nw thinking what if I had sang: Ija d'opin,ogun si tan Olugbala jagun molu Orin ayo la o ma ko Alleluia *English translation* The fight is done,the battle is over The Lord has won Song of praise will we sing Halleluyah What will she have done? This got me thinking,is she afraid to die?This is an 80 something year old woman who is so afraid of death that

DEFINITIONS ADULT: A person who has stopped growing at both ends and is now growing in the = middle. BEAUTY PARLOR: A place where women curl up and dye. CANNIBAL: Someone who is fed up with people. CHICKENS: The only animals you eat before they are born and after they are dead. COMMITTEE: A body that keeps minutes and wastes hours. DUST: Mud with the juice squeezed out. EGOTIST: Someone who is usually me-deep in conversation. GOSSIP: A person who will never tell a lie if the truth will do more damage. HANDKERCHIEF: Cold Storage. INFLATION: Cutting money in half without damaging the paper. MOSQUITO: An insect that makes you like flies better. RAISIN: Grape with a sunburn. SECRET: Something you tell to one person at a time. SKELETON: A bunch of bones with the person scraped off. TOOTHACHE: The pain that drives you to extraction. TOMORROW: One of the greatest labor saving devices of today. YAWN: An honest opinion openly expressed. WRINKLES: Somethin

BREAKING NEWS:Obama to speak in Estonia today MOI:There is a country called Estonia?How wierd is that?And Estonia is in this world.*scratching head*

Hello and happy new month. Welcome to september.

So I went to Babcock University High school for my sis Leke's graduation and well *sighs*honestly its good to have money o!! From the graduates,infact their graduating gowns were WOW,and their dresses and make up. Makes me kinda sad though,I can't fully apply make up and those kids can.Anyways below re some pics I snapped there. Leke with our mum Leke with Pelumi Leke,Busola,Pelumi Leke with Tosin Just realising now that I didn't even snap with her.

I'm convinced now that pink is my colour.I wore that to church yesterday and when I took these pictures,I was like WOW!!!,so I am this pretty??! Kidding,but they sure are good pics sha!!*batting eyelashes*

Ta ta ta ta ta.humming dt wande coal's song.I have forgotten the title now. Hello and how have you been?I haven't been here for a while now due to more than two reasons or the other.I an back now and ready to start bloggin. To my muslim readers,happe belated sallah(covers face). To the matter on ground today,I want to ask you a question,please what is cashless policy?When is it starting?What banks will it start from?I know wema bank nd union bank will start last tho but the most important question is WHEN IS IT STARTING??!!! The rate at which people queue at banks nowadays is alarming!!!My dad sent me to SKYE bank yesterday and I was on a queue for over one hour! I was praying that I should faint but apparently,God turned deaf ears on that particular prayer. Like seriously,does anyone here know how to manually induce fainting?I need to know it for future purposes. At least if I faint,I'll be attended to on time.I even thought about pretending to faint too but I just

20-07-2014 A tear dropped from his left eye as he thought about Anna again. How could she be dead? How? Anna, the best sister anyone could ever have. Anna, his only sister … who made so many sacrifices to ensure he went to college and become the man he is today. Anna. Dead. What is this life? "Tea or coffee sir…?" Munachi – the air hostess – asked, snapping him out of his reverie. He dried his eyes and gestured towards coffee. He nodded his thanks as she gave it to him and went about her business. He took a sip of the scalding hot beverage and didn't even flinch. All he could think of was Anna and how he wept over her cold dead body. He had flown to Monrovia immediately he was told that she was seriously ill. The doctors had initially refused to allow him see her, saying it was unsafe, but one look at them and they obliged. Patrick was a big man. In Liberia and other African countries, big men always had their way. That all seemed like years ago though. He had given her a

Over the weekend,I did this make up for one of my sisters,they didn't want me to do make up for them because to them,I am a complete klutz(d akward part)and don't know anything about make up. Hell,they even dress me up sef,to them, the kind of clothes I put on is a great eyesore to them. So I finally caught up with one and tried this,still yet to catch the other one. U like?

Over the weekend,I did this make up for one of my sisters,they didn't want me to do make up for them because to them,I am a complete klutz(d akward part)and don't know anything about make up. Hell,they even dress me up sef,to them, the kind of clothes I put on is a great eyesore to them. So I finally caught up with one and tried this,still yet to catch the other one. U like?

If you can give the correct answer to these questions,then you get to win #100 recharge card from me.After you answer the questions,drop your phone nos at the end of your answers,if you are correct,you'll receive your cdt on your phone and you'll come here to tell others about it so people won't think its a hoax.This only opens to the first 5 people that answers this question correctly and its just for today.I'll be doing this for a day in the first week of the month,so if you don't win today,you can win next month.The questions aren't hard and no googling! 1.Britain,Ireland,Scotland,England,Wales, are all countries that make up the British isles.True/False 2.Wherez a wing mirror found? 3.Liner,ferry,catamaran,cruiser,hydrofoil are all types of what? 4.Congas,bass drum,snare drun,xylophome, tambourine,bongos,kettle drum,cymbals, triangle are all collectively knows as? 5.Strawberries,raspberries,blackberries,goosberries are examples of? 6.Pu

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Hello guys,welcome to the first day of the other half of the year. Wishing everyone a very fruitful week(PS,I don't mean and agbalumo and watermelon o)I trust you got the meaning? I uploaded a vid again hope you guys get to watch it. Tk care.

Some guys tho,I mean must you always say what comes to your mind?! I have been out of the house since morning to Olabisi Onabanjo University Ikenne campus,I have been going up and down from physiology dept to biochemistry department(shuddering)I have answered thousands'what are you doing in our campus'Shior,as if that's not where my faculty is,(tho my dept is in sagamu)I am hungry,tired,pissed,and then I see you and I waved escapingly(you know that wave you give someone you don't want to greet as you hurry off?) And then he shouted Wait joor! I had been caught,have no choice but just to'' wait joor,''I even gave him the most plastic smile I could summon on such a short notice,and then he looked at me and asked:how come you don't like doing your hair?Anytime I see you,you don't always make it! My alter ego should av sprung into action and given him a dose of his own medicine abi na,but she chose to remain silent,I on the other hand can't do

I found this story on E! Nad m sharing it here. This is Ichimi. With a face like that, how could anyone not want her?! But this baby kitten was rejected by her mother and would have had little chance of survival had she not been rescued by a caring family. The family (@shimejiwasabi on Instagram) regularly rescues homeless kitties, so no one—pets included— were surprised to see the new face. But the family's Golden Retriever, Ponzu, had a special reaction: From the moment Ponzu saw Ichimi, he instantly took over caring for the cat. Ponzu apparently has a soft spot for the "little needy" kittens. "After losing his previous foster kitten to a new forever home, he was heart broken," his owners explains. "Then he found Ichimi, who was desperate to be loved. The two instantly bonded and now Ponzu is very protective of his little kitten and refuses to let her out of his sight." Now they do everything together. Ichimi loves her Ponzu. And

I hink we started going to the computer lab when we were in JSS 2.To me then going to the lab was not the main excitement,the main excitement was walking from the class to the computer lab,looking at the students receiving lectures,nd I bet they wished they were us,and just having a moment to stretching my legs at my leisure! On getting to the lab,there are some laid down rules,like touch the computer and receive an earth shattering slap from the teacher,well I am light in complexion,imaging what such a slap would do to my pretty face.LOL. Actually it was because I didn't want the embarrasment that usually comes with such slaps nd besides,I wasn't interested in all the control v shit.So usually I was at the back of the class,pretendint to write in my note,look as the teachers face,nod my head as if I am just realising that hez making a very important point and pretend to write it down,the point of that was to make him not call me to answer a question and that usually works,tr

Wishing y'all a happy sunday and a fruitful week ahead.