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SOME GOLDEN THOUGHTS TO PONDER :-
1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you
over-react too harshly
to their inappropriate behaviour.
2. If your child is not taught to confide in you
about their mistakes,
you've lost them.
3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because
you advice them
more than you encourage them.
4. If your child does not stand up for themselves,
it is because from a
young age you have disciplined them regularly in
public.
5. If your child takes things that do not belong to
them, it is because
when you buy them things, you don't let them
chose what they want.
6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help
them too quickly.
7. If your child does not respect other people's
feelings, it is because
instead of speaking to your child, you order and
command them.
8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because
you give too much
attention to misbehaviour and you give little
attention to good behaviour.
9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because
you only
congratulate them when they successfully
complete something and not
when they improve at something even if they
don't successfully
complete it.
10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is
because you are not
physically affectionate enough.
11. If your child is openly defied, it is because you
openly threaten to do
something but don't follow through.
12. If your child is secretive, it is because they
don't trust that you
won't blow things out of proportion.
13. If your child talks back to you, it is because
they watch you do it to
others and think its normal behaviour.
14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to
others, it is because
you are too quick to make decisions.
15. If your child rebels it is because they know
you care more about
what others think than what is right


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