Abusive relationship.

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This is a really serious matter to me,because I honestly don't think about it like that in that I didn't grow up in an abusive home.
I honestly don't get why women stay in an abusive relationship.For what?Because of your children?Or because you need the sex?Or because you like the feeling of'oko no olori aya'?Or because of what people will say?I am not married so I honestly don't know.
I witnessed a scene where a husband wanted to beat his wife(dunno how may years they have been married but I think their first born was born '96)and I was HORRIFIED!!!
What on earth is that?I don't even want to know what the woman did but he has NO RIGHTS to even raise his hands at her.
But I do know this,he just didn't start beating her,he must have been slapping her,giving her knocks when they were still courting and she didn't mind then.
I am still saying it,if my wedding is tomorrow and my husband to be slaps me today(he doesn't even have to slap me,he just has to raise his hand)we are done.
This happened on sunday and it has been on my mind,nd I just wondered the kind of beating the woman will get at home,what he'll beat her with,if he'll beat her in the presence of the children and neigbours and onlookers.
Its really very sad.
I told my mum I feel she should divorce the man and get on with her life(I know all marital problems do not have to end in divorce,but ''beating''is a very good reason why a marraige should end)and she told me that's even a sin before God(like she didn't marry her God given partner)dunno but I think God will understand too.
I just wish I can tell her,but my mum would break my head first.
I guess my point is one should really ask God to us our life partner and if anyone is in an abusive relationship,get the hell out of the relationship!

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