What is your type?
What's your "Type"? Do you have a "Type"?
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I'm about to rant #SingleLadies I'm not a guru o but I know a few things that I want to share. You keep praying and fasting asking God for a man, when he sends you one, you say he's not the one, why? because he doesn't drive a Benz or a Range Rover, he doesn't have a house in Lekki, or a job that pays 2m monthly. .
Most responsible young men are a work in progress, why are you looking for a ready made man? Are you a ready made woman ? Why don't you want to build from the bottom with someone ? When your mother married your father was he balling out of control ? I don't think so! .
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Most single women don't even have anything to bring to the table emoji, a man is NOT a financial life plan neither is he an ATM, work hard for your own. So many young ladies have misplaced priorities when it comes to picking a husband, it's more than just money, who his father is, or where he lives and what car he drives.
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What you need to look at is this man's character, Does he have integrity ? How does he react in tough situations and can he handle pressure? How does he handle his finances? How does he treat his parents/ siblings? What is his work ethic? How does he treat people that can do nothing for him? Even the bible says that it is vain/dangerous to set our hearts on the abundance of wealth, it is here today and gone tomorrow. .
Now I'm not saying that money is not important, don't get me wrong it is very important but that's not what you should be looking at when choosing a life partner. .
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Think deeper than that ladies. A lot of women are unhappy today because money was their only deal breaker, how sad. Don't run into the wrong hands, think well and hard
Culled from instagram#####nigerianweddings
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