Moving onto the next thing

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Hello all, 

How have you been?

So, this matter has been a bit confusing for me. In life we don’t stay stagnant, it’s even like a taboo to do, you just must continue moving. Be it in academics, job, life, marriage (No I am not talking about multiple wives all multiple girlfriends), relationships with friends, neighbours co-workers.

What I am mostly concerned about is when to know to move on. At what point do you decide this is enough or better still it is time to move on. do you make this decision when everything is fine and fair or when something happens and you just decide it is time I have to move on from whatever particular situation that is.

 I have been staying in a particular place for a while, to an extent it is OK but when do I decide I have to get the move on? Is it when I think my finances have improved? Or better still I can think that my finances have improved and at the same time also think yeah I want to save money, I mean I'm not necessarily buying a house or investing in something but you know, I just want to have like extra cash with me to do other things.

So a colleague of mine works in this company, the pay is not OK but it's still great in that she has a great relationship with her manager and she was recently promoted and the manager has been helpful,

 I mean if you're all talking about salaries the pay isn't too good but it's enough for her I mean she has enough to spend she has enough to save and actually still have a little bit of extra to be fair. In the same company she applied to another job and she has this interview coming up an we're all confused should we tell the manager that she wants to leave, as it's the same company and one way or the other he's going to find out.

The only problem in this scenario is that the department that she currently is like understaffed they haven't employed new people in there so it's going to be like she is leaving them at the worst possible time, but my question is can she put her life on hold, or better still as human beings is it not very selfish of us to put our life on hold to help someone I mean for all she knows this this situation may not come again, I mean this particular scenario may not play out again probably in the following months so is she going to be stuck in a position or she moves into a I know that departments oh what do you all advice?

 

 

 

 


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